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Devout lesbians to hold 1st Buddhist wedding

TAIPEI--Two devout Buddhist women will hold the first Buddhist wedding for gay couples next month as part of an effort to push for the legalization of same-sex marriages in Taiwan.

“We are not only doing it for ourselves but also for other gays and lesbians,” said Fish Huang in a telephone interview with CNA.

The 30-year-old social worker at a non-governmental organization said that marriage never crossed her mind until she saw a movie last year.

The film portrayed two lesbians whose ill-fated relationship concluded when one died and the other was left heartbroken over the denial of spousal benefits.

“It's so sad,” said Huang.

She plans to wed her partner of seven years on August 11 at a Buddhist altar in Taoyuan County in northern Taiwan.

Both brides will wear white wedding gowns and listen to lectures given by Buddhist masters about marriage, accompanied by a series of chanting and blessings from monks and nuns.

Although homosexual marriages are not legally recognized in Taiwan, Huang insisted on tying the knot because she wants to make her relationship complete and raise awareness about the adversities faced by sexual minorities.

Alternative sexual orientation and marriage have yet to receive wide acceptance by the general public in the country, despite years of effort by activists to secure equality.

The first public gay marriage in Taiwan took place in 1996 between a local writer and his foreign partner. The event drew widespread media attention and inspired many gays to follow in his footsteps. But Huang's wedding will be the first with a Buddhist theme.

While planning for her wedding, Huang found out to her surprise, that some of her Buddhist friends were hesitant about attending the ceremony.

“They are not sure if it would break their vows and expressed much anxiety,” Huang said.

She messaged a Buddhist master on Facebook, asking her if she could find grounds in Buddhism for condemning the practice of homosexuality.

To Huang's surprise, the master quickly replied that Buddhism shows no bias toward homosexuality. In a demonstration of support, the master is willing to host a ceremony for the couple — the first public same-sex Buddhist wedding in Taiwan.

“It is meaningful to us that our wedding can give hope to other homosexuals and help heterosexuals understand how Buddhism views sexuality,” said Huang.

The Buddhist master Shih Chao-hwei, who is also a professor at Hsuan Chuang University, said Buddhist teachings do not prohibit homosexual behavior.

Compared to western religions, Buddhism on the whole is more tolerant toward homosexuality because there is no concrete rule banning the practice in Buddhist scriptures, Shih said.

“It's difficult enough to maintain a relationship ... how could you be so stingy as to begrudge a couple for wanting to get married, regardless of their sexual orientation,” she said in a telephone interview.

But Shih recognized there is disagreement on the issue both within and outside the Buddhist circle. Shih noted that Huang and her partner could face criticism.

“The first step is always the hardest,” Shih said.

July 8, 2012    miller.henry641@
"Although homosexual marriages are not legally recognized in Taiwan, Huang insisted on tying the knot because she wants ..."

Because SHE wants....Hmmm...a bit selfish I'd say.

"The 30-year-old social worker at a non-governmental organization aid that marriage never crossed her mind ..."...Hmmm...partnered-up for seven (7) years and never thought about marriage?
Methinks a bit of "social activism" is afoot here.

One should also consider that non-prohibition does not mean accepting or condoning a behaviour or activity.

Approaching this topic from an interesting angle certainly.
July 9, 2012    the_alliance47@
Marriage by definition is between a man and a woman. Not legalizing same-sex "marriage" is not and cannot be considered a form of discrimination. Society should focus on fostering healthier families, not trying to change the definition of marriage. Same-sex "marriages" will not increase the abysmal birth rate in Taiwan. To do that, we need better economic development policies. Is Taiwan so desperate for international attention that it has forgotten traditional culture?
November 10, 2013    b331b798@
Buddhism practices acceptance of all peoples. "the _alliance47@" should really check the research regarding homosexual families. Homosexual families have been shown to be healthier than hetero families in many instances. I'm afraid your emotions are clouding your logic. I would also like to know what "definition" of marriage you are using. Every definition I found states it is a union of kinship by choice. No gender even mentioned.

"Miller.henry641@" do you really think marrying her choice of lover makes her selfish? It isn't very Buddhist to judge others, maybe you are from a Christian background then. Buddhism does not use shaming or judging to express opinions. They use the eight fold path, that states right speech and right conduct.

Compassion for the women and men that take on societal judgments made by closed minded people needs to be given. Only then can we live in a state of harmony and acceptance. Buddhism supports love of all kinds. Even the love of the two previous commenters chose to have should be supported. Because it is their choice to make. If you cannot help your fellow human beings, certainly do not go out to hurt them. In Gassho..
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