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Updated Monday, December 28, 2009 10:40 am TWN, By Kevin Huffman, Special to The Washington Post |
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Americans are doing pretty well on the happiness meterBut do we know what makes us happy? “That's a good question,” Wu said in a telephone interview, pointing to the quality-of-life indicators as a good starting point. Later, as I was looking out at my post-blizzard yard, Oswald told me: “I've frozen myself in Michigan and New York and basked in warm states, and I have a sense that it matters.” Arthur Brooks, president of the American Enterprise Institute and author of two books on happiness, doesn't buy weather or other external factors, including money, as real drivers of happiness. In his interpretation, the state rankings reflect political viewpoints — each of the bottom 10 states on the happy meter voted for Obama in 2008. Brooks also points to research showing that 44 percent of conservatives are “very happy,” but only 25 percent of liberals describe themselves that way. He says half of the difference, statistically, is lifestyle — mostly rates of marriage and religious worship — and half is attitude. None of these drivers is particularly helpful to me. I won't be voting Republican or moving to Louisiana in the near future (though, after hearing a friend use “joie de vivre” to explain Louisiana's top ranking, maybe I should reconsider). But I am among the 78 percent of happy Americans, which leads me to ponder what more, exactly, we are striving for. Tal Ben-Shahar, who teaches positive psychology at Harvard and has written extensively on happiness, calls it “the end toward which all other ends lead.” He writes: “Wealth, fame, admiration and all other goals are subordinate and secondary to happiness; whether our desires are material or social, they are means toward one end: happiness.” This year was a near-constant assault on the senses from people confusing means with ends. Bernie Madoff, Balloon Boy, Mark Sanford, the Salahis, Tiger Woods. It is easy to view them all as representative of our culture, a fitting end to a rotten decade. And yet most of us aren't, in fact, bilking or scheming or faking or aspiring to reality TV. If happiness is the point, four in five Americans already are on the right track, and that should make all of us more optimistic about the decade to come. | |||||||||||||